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A Mime, eh? Interesting…I am going to look your book up as soon as I finish writing here. I am so excited and happy for you and I can’t wait to read it! One other thought…You wrote that you are now speaking up for yourself, yet have lost some friends as a result? You are setting boundaries and sticking up for yourself, Mary. And when you do this, some people don’t respond well. It’s a reflection on them, not you. 🌺🌸🌼

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Ha.ha, yep, a Mime. I wonder if that is still a career choice on current job counseling tests? Thank you for the widened lens on my setting boundaries. It reminded me of something my mother told me long ago, and I had to smile when I read it through you. She would have liked you so much.

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Hi Mary—

I had to jump through a fair number of hoops to leave a comment, but I felt that it was important to send hearty congratulations to you. I (former mentor and closeted writer myself) have been reading your posts for a while. You have amazing persistence and tenacity but most of all unfailing heart and soul. Bless you as this event coincides with the loss of your parents such a short time ago. Evidence you are more than equal to all that life asks of you and ALL that you have to give. I take inspiration from that as I move through my SEVENTIES! Much love.

Marilyn Graham Werden

P.S.

I love the idea of using the mime pic as your bio head shot or whatever they call it. And I will definitely purchase a copy of your book.

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Oh, Marilyn, you coming back into my life at this moment, means so, so much. I learned so much from you during our time at ITP and beyond. Thank you for jumping through the hoops and for reading my pieces. I am so honored. Was it that long ago that we walked under the redwoods in CA, pondering life, giving birth to dreams and goals?

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Blankies and daffodils.

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Can’t wait to read it. Congratulations!

Yeah I would have howled at mine, too!

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Thank you! It's weird to hawk it though. Thank goodness the PR team will do a lot of that for me.

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Congrats on your new book, Mary! I hope its entrance into the world feels so fulfilling. 🎉

PS. For my first job, I was a dancing mine for a magic company. I was in a white unitard and had glowing thumbs. 😂 We were contracted to entertain outdoor shopping mall guests and my favorite was pretending I was a mannequin. Quite the gig!

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Erika-I love that so much!!!! A dancing mime with glowing thumbs. Classic. Thank you for the well wishes on my book as well. Yes, it is like birthing a bit. (Of course, no one is yelling, "One more push!"

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