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Jocelind Julien's avatar

As a peace (alternative dispute resolution) practitioner, my sole responsibility is to empower people to bring peace within themselves and with one another. I’ve been called a miracle worker and appreciated by many in my field. My struggle, naturally, is to obtain and maintain peace within myself. There are many days that I feel pulled 10 different ways. My mom, like her dad (my grandfather) was a straightforward, no-nonsense woman. And, whenever I had an ailment or trouble, she’d advise me to “psyche” yourself out of it. “Yes, but Mom, I just got hit in the nose with a baseball bat!” What I did not realize was my mom was telling me so much more in those years. Use your mind to create a different space for yourself. Empower yourself to create the necessary change within. My mom was such a strong and resilient human being! So, as I approach the holidays with family and friends, I will bask in the abundant love and good cheer, and, if conflict should arise, I will just psyche myself out of it! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to All!

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Maria Moy's avatar

My mother’s advice was “Let it go” but I think she over-used this approach. I believe in letting the mad out so it can be dealt with and then it’s over. Then I can let it go....the issue can leave me.

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