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In helping your daughter as you did during her college education, you became a part of the community there. As you wrote, it is your daughter’s story to tell herself, but it is clear how deep your love and commitment are for her. Goodbyes for me are difficult. I am not one to cry easily, but when I am saying goodbye to people I love, that’s a different story. It was so difficult for me to say goodbye to both of my children the day my husband and I took them to college. They were both reassuring me that everything was going to be okay. I think I horrified myself. 😉 After my own college graduation, there were so many close friends I was literally sobbing with while saying goodbye, that my mother began to have us pose for more photos to lighten the mood. One of my best friends from college dropped me off at the airport after I had been visiting her and her husband and there we were, all of these years later, crying as we were hugging one another. Just a few examples here, but you get the idea of how goodbyes are for me. Yes, you became a part of your daughter’s college community and it will be hard for you to say goodbye. I always tell my own children, how lucky we are in life, to cry or have difficulty when saying goodbye to others as it means we have loved and been loved. I wish you peace on your daughter’s graduation day! 🎓❤️

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Jocelind Julien's avatar

This story has touched my heart—I have been lucky enough to have you and Sylvie in my and Meggie’s lives for many years. I know your stories, your joys, your sorrows. And that you have been touched by the pure and sweet joys of beautiful people does my heart good. As for me, and you have witnessed this time and again, I’m the one standing outside (or at the front door) waving my family and good friends “good bye” as they leave. My grandmother would always tell the story of how, when I was no more than age 2, I didn’t want my mom, dad, brother, and sister to leave me to watch a parade in town, so I hurriedly put my coat on backwards to go with them. I cried and cried having been left behind. I’m not at all good with good byes! Instead, I opted for the “See you soon” or some such non committal saying to give me the sense that I’ll see them again.

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